Sexy Christmas Gifts for an X-Rated Holiday

Most holidays are pretty wholesome, and this is certainly true of Christmas – Santa Claus, cookies and silly wrapping paper, not to mention spending time with family, generally make this a rated-G holiday. However, there’s no reason a man can’t take the occasion as an opportunity to spice things up with his lover. While sexy Christmas gifts may not be appropriate for very new couples, those who have established trust, communication and comfort around sex can benefit immensely from intimate stocking stuffers. Along with practicing appropriate penis care for his lover, a man can gift him or her with the following delights – some specifically for the other’s pleasure, and some for them to share in.

1) Sex Position Book

The number of possible sex positions ends with the imagination (and, of course, some natural physical limitations). Gifting a lover a book on sex positions – be it the traditional Kama Sutra or a more modern version – can be a real treat for both partners. Make sure to tailor the gift to a partner’s desires; if he or she isn’t comfortable looking at porn, for example, a book with illustrations rather than pictures of people in the act may be preferable.

2) Vibrator

There’s great variety on the vibrator market. If a partner is new to this tantalizing toy, starting small with a little “egg” or a design that fits on the finger may be best. If he or she wants a dildo and vibrator combo, this should be taken into account. There are vibrators on the market that warm up, and still others that can be operated by a remote control, so the partner can be surprised when the other kicks it into gear from across the room. Get creative; peruse the many options available, and think of what a partner might enjoy most.

3) Sexy Games

There are several sexy games for playful couples to indulge in, and they make great gifts. Such games include raunchy “Truth or Dare” compilations, with dirty secret-sharing and dares to perform sexual acts, and dirty dice games in a similar vein.

4) Bondage Kit

Many couples are interested in exploring bondage; some discuss it, but never seem to get around to it. If partners have discussed this but dropped the ball on it, holiday time might be the perfect opportunity to pick it up again. Go for luxurious blindfolds, fancy cuffs or other restraints and soft feather dusters. If a couple is already engaged in basic bondage and interest has been expressed in taking it to a new level, perhaps this is the time to get more restrictive restraints, whips, etc.

5) Lingerie Gift Certificate

Buying lingerie for a lover works out for some men; for others, it can be a bad experience. What if it doesn’t fit? What if his lover is turned off, or even offended, by his choice? For these reasons, some men might prefer to slip a gift certificate to a quality lingerie shop into his lover’s stocking. Or, if his partner isn’t too invested in surprises, he can simply offer to take his partner on an exciting shopping trip.

6) Sex Shop Gift Certificate

If a man isn’t sure what type of   toy  his partner would be into, though he or she has expressed interest in  toys  before, then a gift certificate to a high-class  sex  shop is a great present, as it allows the partner to explore the options and pick out something for him- or herself. As with lingerie shopping, a man may also opt to take his lover on a shopping trip and share the experience.

A Gift for the Penis

Some people like to give themselves a little gift on Christmas, and why not? Men should consider treating themselves – and their penises – to a quality penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Along with keeping the skin smooth and hydrated during the dry winter season, such a product can help protect a man’s penile nerves and therefore maximize penis sensitivity – this means greater pleasure when indulging with his partner in the sexy gifts he gives.

What Are The Different Kinds of Sex Toy Materials?

Not only are there many different options of sex toys, there are also many different types of sex toy materials. How do you know which material is right for you? Learn how to determine which sex toy material would work best for your needs.

100% Silicone*

  • Medical-grade silicone is made form the highest grade of polymers
  • Pliable, durable material that does not contain phthalates
  • Non-porous and hypoallergenic
  • Retains heat
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner and can be sterilized in boiling water or top rack of dishwasher
  • Only use water-based lubricants

*A toy only has to be 100% silicone to say silicone on the label


  • Very porous phthalates-free and hypo-allergenic (use a condom if you plan to share the toy or use vaginally or anally)
  • Soft & flexible and very durable
  • Suitable for people with allergic reactions or chemical sensitivities
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner
  • Only use water-based lubricants

Glass – Borosilicate/Pyrex Glass

  • Non-porous and hypoallergenic
  • Excellent for temperature play
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner and can be sterilized in boiling water or top rack of dishwasher
  • Can be used with any lubricant

Glass – Soft

  • Heavier (than Borosilicate) for a fuller feeling
  • Non-porous and hypoallergenic
  • Can withstand extreme changes in temperature – Excellent for temperature play
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner and can be sterilized in boiling water or top rack of dishwasher
  • Can be used with any lubricant

Hard Plastic, Lucite and Acrylic

  • There are a variety of hard plastics used to make sex toys and do not contain phthalates.
  • Non-porous (use a condom if you plan to share or use vaginally or anally)
  • Hard, shiny, transmits vibration very well
  • Usually safe for people with sensitivity issues
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or sex toy cleaner
  • Can be used with any lubricant


  • Made of PVC (polyvinyl chloride), often contain phthalates and have a plastic smell
  • Very porous (not safe to share or use vaginally or anally without a condom)
  • Inexpensive, soft and flexible
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner
  • Only use water-based lubricants

Organic Wood

  • Carved from exotic woods and basic woods
  • Waterproof, hypo-allergenic and phthalate-free
  • Splinter free-super smooth finish
  • Suitable for people with allergic reactions or chemical sensitivities
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner
  • Can be used with any lubricant

Stainless Steel

  • Composed of medical grade stainless steel (and sometimes chromium) and will not rust
  • Non-porous and phthalate-free
  • Excellent for temperature play
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner and can be sterilized in boiling water or top rack of dishwasher
  • Can be used with any lubricant


  • Polished semi-precious stone like quartz, marble, and granite
  • Somewhat porous (not safe to share or use vaginally or anally without a condom)
  • Excellent for temperature play
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner
  • Can be used with any lubricant


  • Heat molded plastic that can resemble jelly, silicone or plastic
  • Porous (not safe to share or use vaginally or anally without a condom)
  • Flexible, elastic and durable
  • Not always phthalate-free
  • Easy to clean with soap & water or toy cleaner
  • Only use water-based lubricants

Don’t let the different types of sex toy materials confuse you. Some are definitely better than others. Just like anything else, buy the best you can afford because you always get what you pay for.

Are you a Pearl Rabbit Girl?

Are you a Rabbit Girl?

Or, for the guys our subtitle is “Is your girl a Rabbit type of girl?”

By Chrystal Bougon

December 30, 2006

Aaaaah, the age old question ……to Rabbit or Not to Rabbit? And if you do “rabbit” which style of Rabbit is right for you?

At our Bliss Pleasure Parties, we sell various styles of “rabbit” type toys. And, just to clarify what a “rabbit” type   toy  is, we define it as any  Adult   Sex   Toy  which gives more then one type of stimulation simultaneously – typically vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation.

In this industry, we are flush with Rabbits thanks to, in my opinion, that infamous “Sex & The City” episode where “Charlotte” became addicted to her “Rabbit Pearl.” That episode ran for the first time in August 1998. In the last 8 or 9 years pretty much everyone in the  adult   toy  industry has tried to duplicate Vibratex’TM super quiet, artfully crafted and atomically charged Pearl Rabbit that was so perfectly placed in that “ Sex  & The City episode.” Talk about your product placement coup!

Good for VibratexTM and good for consumers, right? Maybe is my short answer. Choices are great, but they do come with some confusion for the regular girl or guy shopping for  sex   toys .

I have been selling rabbit style toys for over 4 years now at our home parties, online and at the local boutique that I co-owned. I have personally owned several rabbit style  toys  and bought my first rabbit  toy  called the “Lobo” or “Wolfie” about 12 years ago at a home  sex   toy  party (hosted by my good friend Stacy). I am now what you might call a Sexpert on the subject of these types of toys.

Here are some of the myths and questions that I am frequently asked about when customers want to know which of the rabbit style toys is right for them. Some of them may sound a little crude or silly, but they are REAL questions from REAL people:

1.W: Once I own a rabbit, will my husband or boyfriend still be able to please me?

2.W: Will my husband or boyfriend feel like he is being replaced?

3.M: If I buy this toy for my wife/girlfriend will I still be able to please her?

4.M: Will my wife/girlfriend be “stretched” vaginally by this toy?

5.W: Can this toy electrocute me and burn me or hurt me in some way?

6.W: Will I still be able to have an orgasm without this toy?

7.M: Do you have one that does not have any wires or cords?

8.M: Doesn’t that hurt?

The short answer is: Yes, No, Yes, No, No, Yes, Yes, and HELL NO!

(The questions with the “w” were from women and the one’s with the “m” were from men.)

So, now you’re asking yourself, how do I decide which multi functional rabbit type toy is right for you. Ask yourself the following questions:

1. Do I plan to use the toy more often alone or with a partner?

If you answered alone, you may prefer the types of toys that have a battery pack and a wire so you can keep the controller near you where you can adjust the speeds and other functionality more easily. (Suggestion: Original Rabbit Pearl or the Jack Rabbit) If you plan to use it more often with someone else, you may prefer to go the wireless route. (Suggestion: The Rabbit Habit, The Pearl Thunder or the Krystal Wabbit)

2. Do I prefer more direct and constant clitoral stimulation or do I prefer a more light, fluttering type of clitoral stimulation?

Remember that we’re all uniquely different. And while 90% of women have 95% of their orgasms through clitoral stimulation, we all get there in our own unique ways. If you prefer more direct and constant clitoral stimulation look for a toy which has a harder material or a more solid cut in the clitoral stimulator. (Suggestion: The Rabbit Habit, Pearl Thunder, Rainbow Blue, Rock My World.) If you prefer the lighter, more fluttering effect then choose stimulators with softer materials and one’s that have two softer rabbit “ears” as opposed to one more direct “ear”. (Suggestion: Original Rabbit Pearl, and The Jack Rabbit)

3. Do I prefer girth, length or both?

Many women prefer girth to length. I said many, not all. My theory for why women prefer girth is due the concentration of nerve endings that are situated at the opening and bottom third of the vagina. With girth, we feel more at the opening and at the bottom third because the thickness is touching and stimulating all of those nerve endings. (Suggestion for girth: Pearl Thunder or Krystal Wabbit.) The top two thirds of the vagina have very few nerve endings and there is not a lot of sensation up at the top, closer to our cervix. However, some girls like longer toys – more than 5″ insertable. Many women find anything over 5″ insertable a bit uncomfortable. (Suggestion for average to longer toys: Eager Beaver, Original Pearl Rabbit, Jack Rabbit, and Rabbit Habit.)

4. Will I find the rotation of the beads or pearls distracting or pleasurable?

This is a critical decision point for many women and especially for men trying to buy these toys for their female partners. What I most often tell customers is that if you’re the type of girl who has to think about your orgasm and have to spend some energy getting your brain to catch up with your body, you may prefer the toys without the rotating pearls or beads. (NOTE: almost all of the toys with the rotation function allow you to turn that part off if you find you don’t like it.)

Some women have told me that the rotation distracts them and that slows down their ability to have an orgasm. Now, if you’re a girl that does not have to think about your orgasm much, you will more then likely find that third sensation of the rotating beads or pearls highly pleasurable and it will enhance your orgasm. (Suggestions: Eager Beaver or Osaki Beaver have no beads or pearls, but still give you the penetration and the clitoral vibration. Most of the other toys mentioned in this article have some type of beads or pearls for that third type of stimulation.)

5. Will I be using this toy in the bedroom or in the shower/bathtub/hottub?

Many women, especially women with children, rarely get any privacy at all for a hot date with their rabbit toys. For some women, the only little bit of peace and quiet they get is when they lock the bathroom door for their daily shower or bath. If you need a waterproof toy or just like the idea of a dildo that can be used in the shower or hot tub, check out the waterproof toys. (Suggestion: The Duke is 100% waterproof but can be used in the bed or bath. Same with the Water Dancer Pocket Rocket by VibratexTM.)

Ladies, if you’re concerned about your husband or boyfriend feeling replaced by a toy, here’s what we suggest. First of all, let your partner know that nothing could ever replace him. We like to think of our toys as a great appetizer that is leading up to a fabulous and orgasmic entrée – HIM! Once most men figure out that the more fun you have, the more fun they have – they will fully embrace your toys. (Keep in mind that men are super visual and many men love using their toys with their partners.)

Speaking for most of my friends, relatives and the random women I have met through years of putting on Pleasure Party presentations and talking to them at my boutique, a toy has never made them less sensitive to an orgasm. For many women, toys actually help them to become more orgasmic and more sensitive – in some cases toys can even train and help women to become multi orgasmic. And, NO, a toy will not stretch you out( If you’re reallu concerned, double up on your kegel exercises! If you’ve been to any of my pleasure parties you know I am a big proponent of doing your kegels and not using those tightener creams. Ladies! The more often you do your kegels, the more intense your orgasm.)

So throw out all of those old wives tales about  Sex   Toys . Do your research and find the toy that is right for you. Don’t let someone SELL you a toy. Ask them to EDUCATE you about the toys that they sell and let them help you to find the one that is exactly right for you and your body. That is the approach we take at all of our Home Pleasure Parties. Let us come to your home and educate you and your friends about our products and with any luck, we have something that fits your needs. One Size Does Not Fit All in this industry!

If you’re ready to book your own Bliss Pleasure Party and you’re in the Silicon Valley area, call us today at 1-866-200-9475 or 408-826-9087. You can also email me with your comments or questions about this article at [email protected]. Happy Bunny Trails, Chrystal

Vibrating Sex Toys For Men

Even if you have an active sex life together with your partner, you and your partner might be looking for more exciting techniques to heat up at night in your bed. There are a lot of ways to satisfy your partner, by using different techniques such as using sex toys.

One of the most popular sex gadgets is the vibrating cock ring. This kind of sex toy can actually make you sizzle through the night. Because of its very unique function of combining two sex gadgets in one. This specialized sex toy is a combination of a vibrator and a cock ring. By having this vibrating cock ring, you can experience two sensations with just one sex gadget.

For those people who are newbies in using this kind of sex toy, this vibrating cock ring is just right for you. You do not have to be a skilled sex addict to be able to use this toy. Once the vibrating cock ring is in the right place and turned on, the only thing for you to do is have sex. Applying this ring just as simple as putting on your sock.

Just simply pull the ring up with your fingers just like a rubber band. Pull it over around the penis and your ball until it is properly placed. Just relax and don’t put on added tension, let the ring slowly contract into its original size. Compared to other vibrators, vibrating cock rings do not need the use of your hands, making your hands free to stroke and massage your partner during the sexual intercourse.

If you do not want to spend much on a sex toy, choose a vibrating cock ring. Most cock rings are made up of silicon making it more affordable than others. Plus it is easier to clean, use and it is rechargeable. You can play with your vibrating cock ring to maximize your pleasure. Experimenting on how to use it is a nice thing to do during your sexual activity.

It has a rubbery material, so you cannot avoid instances wherein your pubic hair may stick unto the rubber. You can simply avoid this irritating situation by making sure that your genitals are properly lubricated. When taking off your ring you have to carefully pull it to avoid damaging your pubic hair.

Always make sure that your hands are dry before putting it on. You may lose your grip of the ring, because of its rubbery material. Different positions can have different effects on the cock ring. Be sure to go on one position to the other one at a time. Just by rotating the cock ring you can create a different new position. By doing this you can provide greater stimulation on your scrotum and perineum area. You can add a more intense sensation on your penis.

These cock rings are not only design for men and women, lesbian and gay can also used it for more exciting sexual intercourse. Enjoy the unique experience of this sex toy and make your partner scream for more.

Sex Shop Online Vs Brick and Mortar Sex Shops

I don’t know about you but, my first experience in a brick and mortar sex shop was not the most pleasant. With a salesperson watching my every move, I felt no privacy whatsoever. As this was supposed to be something fun and exciting to do with my boyfriend, I can only say that the experience was not at all as arousing as we had hoped.

So instead we decided to see if going to a sex shop online would be more our style. Just the fact that we could sit together at the computer screen and look at all that was available was definitely more pleasing. Just fantasising about using this or that, or explaining to each other how we would use this   sex   toy  on each other, in total privacy was a definite turn on.

One thing we noticed, were the prices. The  toys  at the  sex  shops online were incredibly lower. Even after taking into account the shipping costs the final purchase price is much lower than the street shops. Some of these  sex   toy  shops online even had free shipping if you buy for more than a certain predetermined amount of dollars.

Once we had figured out the  sex   toys  that we wanted to purchase, we then had the chance to shop around and find the best prices. There are some great price comparison tools out there if look around. Shopzilla and Google Product Search are some of my favourite. They allow searching for a particular product and seeing the different online sex shops that carry them and compare the prices. So getting the most ‘bang for your buck’ is indeed possible (pun intended!).

So all things considered, here are what we find are the pros and cons of each  sex   toy  shop:

Buying from a sex shop online, will save you money if you know how to shop and compare. You will also have a much more private shopping experience. We found that shopping from the comfort of our couch was fun, exciting and just led to more sex talk and teasing.

The cons however, are that you cannot actually touch and see the products. So to know if the vibrator you want to buy is big enough, or vibrates enough or just feels like what you want, is not possible when buying online unless the website has live chat. Some sites will offer live help to get answers to those questions that you may have.

Give Your Sexual Confidence a Boost

We’re all good at different things, and most of the time how good we are at something depends upon how confident we are in that area. The same is true for sex-regardless of whether you can twist your body into the shape of a pretzel and lick your way through the Great Wall of China. If you don’t have confidence, you can’t be good in bed-or, for that matter, enjoy sex as much as its possible for you to enjoy it. Forget learning tricks or spending a fortune on   adult   toys  (although a few are a good idea, as you’ll find out), the first lesson in becoming a sexual master is mastering yourself!

Body Confidence

Body confidence has little to do with the way your body looks and everything to do with the way you feel. A woman with the physique of Elle Macpherson can still be completely un-sexy if she’s not in touch with her inner goddess, just as someone of virtually any size can be absolutely, irresistibly sexy. Of course, it’s easier said than done, learning to love your body, and even the most steadfast of self-lovers need a little boost in self esteem every once in a while. Focus on one part of your body you love-you may have great breasts, a bum you love in a particular skirt or shoulders with glowing skin. Whatever it is-flaunt it, and tell yourself out loud how sexy it is. This may seem silly, but your subconscious mind can’t tell the difference between whether your conscious mind believes it or not, and sooner or later it’ll start to believe it-and in turn, release the sexpot within!

Sexy Secrets

One of the simplest ways to boost sexual confidence is to have a sexy secret with yourself. You may be wearing particularly naughty underwear one day-or none at all-or even just fantasizing about a sexual memory in your head. Thinking sexy thoughts-especially secret ones-sends out a strong sexual energy, and you’ll notice others reacting to the charge in the air.

Knowing what you want

A big part of sexual confidence is knowing what you want and how your body responds to certain stimuli. Play around with a vibrator and have fun figuring out exactly where your most sensitive areas are, what kind of pressure you like and which positions get you hot. Then, when it comes time to replicate the moves with a partner you’ll be having fun-and fun is definitely sexy.

Doing it for you

Regardless of the benefits that sexual confidence may have for your sex life and relationships with other people, the primary reason for wanting to be more sexually confidence should be about you-because your sexuality is a gift and should be celebrated, which is exactly what being confident is all about.

Six Reasons to Invest in a Rabbit Vibrator

A rabbit vibrator has two parts: the traditional penis shape and a section which stimulates the clitoris. It gets it name from the shape of the clitoris stimulator, which is like two long rabbit ears. There are many reasons why you should invest in this particular vibrator, but here are the best six reasons.

Reason 1 – Get More Orgasms

Many women struggle to experience the Big O when it comes to vaginal penetration alone. With the rabbit vibrator, you get both your clit and your vagina stimulated at the same time, meaning women who only usually orgasm with clitoris stimulation will love the experience of more orgasms with this vibrator.

Reason 2 – Enjoy Double Stimulation

Double the stimulation means double the fun. The rabbit vibrator is unique in its design. Traditionally shaped vibrators only stimulate the vagina, while butterfly vibrators only stimulate the clitoris. Rabbit vibrators stimulate both areas, giving you the best sensation and making it easy for you to experience real orgasms as often as you want to.

Reason 3 – Teach Your Body to Respond to Vaginal Stimulation

If you do find it difficult to orgasm when having sex with a partner, or when only vaginal penetration is used, you may find that investing in a rabbit vibrator solves your problem. By using it regularly, you will teach your body to respond to vaginal stimulation with the penetration, while still enjoying the clitoris stimulation.

Reason 4 – Experience Longer Lasting Orgasms

Vibrators last longer than any man can, so when you use your rabbit vibrator you will find that you can experience longer lasting or even multiple orgasms. You can set the pace on your vibrator to start with a slow vibration and end with a quicker vibration setting to stretch out the orgasmic experience.

Reason 5 – Have Better Sex with Your Partner

Using a vibrator can help your body to learn to respond to vaginal penetration, so you may find yourself enjoying more satisfying sex with your partner. You can encourage your partner to stimulate your clitoris while penetrating your vagina (just like your vibrator does) for better sex. You can even use your rabbit vibrator as part of the foreplay, getting your partner to set the pace and use the vibrator to stimulate your body and get you ready for the best sex of your life.

Reason 6 – Become Healthier and Happier

Scientists have proven that women who regularly experience orgasms are healthier and happier. Orgasms are nature’s way of de-stressing the body and sending the feel good endorphins to your brain. Even if you do not have a current partner, you should enjoy regular orgasms for your own sake and a rabbit vibrator is the best way to experience the Big O whenever you need to.

Invest in a jack rabbit vibrator and you will love the changes it brings to your sex life. Enjoy longer lasting, multiple orgasms with the double stimulation that the rabbit vibrator provides and experience better sex with your partner.

Naughty Gift Guide for Valentine’s Day – Kinky Gifts for Couples

Whips, Paddles & Chains, Oh My! If you are looking for some kinky gifts to get you hot and bothered this Valentine’s Day, then this is the list for you. Perfect for couples who want more flavor than just vanilla, saucy play partners, Dommes and Dominatrix’, naughty girls and bad boys.

1. Coffret Bling Bling. This sexy bondage kit will ignite her passions (and yours!) for a playful session of erotic bondage. Be wicked as you bind, tickle and tantalize your lover into submission. Inside the decorative metal box you’ll find Za Za Zu Marabou feather lined wrist cuffs, a plush feather Pom Pom Tickler and Edible Silver Bling Bling Body Dust. Perfect for Diva’s and girls who like elegant gifts. This gift inspires sensuality, sexy play and hot bondage.

2. Hand-Embroidered Jeweled Paddle. This Authentic Indian hand embroidered paddle is more than just a piece of art–it also packs a whollop! Lovely silver stitching with gem stone colors on luscious velvet makes this paddle both voluptuous and divine. Display it on your wall beside your bed and then when you are ready to turn up the heat with some erotic spanking, this toy is ready to wield.

3. Sex & Mischief Bed Bondage Restraint Kit. The Sex & Mischief Bondage Restraint Kit by Sportsheets will turn any size bed into a place of binding pleasure. The sturdy and adjustable restraint straps quickly fit beneath any mattress or frame without hooks for an instant bondage bedroom. Restrain your partner’s arms and legs to bend them to your will and make them beg for mercy (or more)! This is the best-selling bedroom bondage kit on the market and at a very affordable price.

4. KinkLab Experimental Kit. This bondage kit is perfect for both beginners and experts alike. Made of soft red leather, the contoured blindfold has soft padding that won’t press against the eyes and wrap-around wrist cuffs are a snap to fasten. Also included, a lush red ostrich feather plume to tease your lover once you have them cuffed and blindfolded. Comes in a resealable pouch for easy storage. Makes a great gift.

5. Tension Lover Digital Stimulation. Discover the exciting sensation of erotic electro-sex with Mystim’s Tension Lover Digital Stimulation. Used for erotic sensory play, this kit features a Control Unit with 2 individually adjustable channels (to attach two different toys at once) and 7 different programs to send tingling, pulsing, rhythmic sensations through your body from mild to wild. You control the intensity of stimulation with the easy to use dials. These erotic impulses are used to stimulate any part of the body by awakening nerve endings to more orgasmic pleasure! Use with a variety of electro-sex stimulation   sex   toys , sold separately.

Ready to get hot and bothered and bring new kinky play to the bedroom? Try any of these kinky gifts to really set fire to your passions and fantasies this Valentine’s Day!

Buying Your Lover a Sex Toy

It may seem strange if someone comes up and asks you about sex toys in front of your partner, but everybody has one for themselves. They love to use it when their partner is away for long and they just want it badly and cannot have them by their side. On several occasions, people try using the toys for the places where the partner does not want to visit, like the back door. However, you may always surprise you partner by presenting them with a sex toy for the moments that you would be away and also for the moments you would be with her.

When you are buying your lover a sex toy, you must choose it carefully. It is always good when you buy something that they can use while you both are together also. These days, developers have come up with several designs and playthings that you might hear for the first time. Many individuals have this fantasy of anal sex and fear to go ahead because of the pain. However, if you lube your hole properly and keep them used to entries then they would accept any log easily. The butt plugs are designed exquisitely for this purpose alone.

They are available in different shapes and sizes, and may also come with vibrations; you just need to go in order. If your partner tries the butt plug on and keeps it vibrating, the sensations go straight up the spine and at that moment if you take on your partner it is truly an amazing feeling that you should not stay away from. It is like being in pure ecstasy that is experienced by both you and your partner; because of the thin membrane, you can feel the vibrations on your member as well. The power of orgasms with the aid of sex toys is truly amazing than that you could have thought of.

Other than these, there are toys that you can buy for your partner, which can be worn for the entire day. Starting from vibrator underwear to cock rings, anal beads, and various dildos you can gift your partner anything that you think would keep them horny throughout the day. So that when you two meet again, they are gasping out of breath and need you desperately. Needless to say, the lovemaking that takes place is by far the best you have dreamed of.

The History of the Vibrator

There were some fairly odd medical devices in common use before 1900 or so. Leeches were a common tool used by doctors, opioids were given to babies to help relieve coughs and irritability, and wood ash and alum was often mixed with bread in Victorian era-London… then given to babies to be weaned on. One of the most fascinating of the olden-style medical devices is still around today, though in a very different form. Today we take a look at the vibrator’s journey from a time-saving, steam-powered device for doctors, to the modern battery driven, technologically advanced vibrator.

The earliest vibrators

The earliest vibrators were invented as a tool to help doctors treat ‘female hysteria’. This common ‘condition’ often involved symptoms like irritability, loss of appetite, nervousness, headaches, and a fear of impending insanity… as well as a ‘tendency to cause trouble’! Doctors believed this disease originated in the womb, sometimes because women do not release fluids during sex like men do (and this buildup was supposed to cause problems), and sometimes because her uterus was thought to be wandering around the body, causing problems in the vital organs.

The medical treatment was manual massage, but this was time consuming… and sort of boring for the doctors, oddly enough! So, one of the first vibrators was invented.

Steam-powered vibrators and the medical profession

The steam powered vibrator was not in wide use, but was truly a revolutionary device because it began the idea of automating the task of bringing women to orgasm. The steam engine was in another room, but had a protrusion into the room where the patient was… allowing some sort of privacy. The greater relaxation this privacy afforded probably went some way towards speeding up that ‘hysterical paroxysm’.

Vibrators move into the private sphere – the mid to late 1900s

Vibrators were one of the first five household items to be electrified – the toaster came before the vibrator, but vibrating dildos beat out the vacuum cleaner and the iron. Around the early 1900s, vibrators started appearing in stag films – and the general public started to understand what they were for. They began to be advertised as ‘personal massagers’ in women’s needlework and homecraft magazines of the time, though all readers realised what they were really for!

Vibrator types available today

Just most 1700s era men and women would do at the thought of most of our modern implements today, they would be stunned by the array of vibrators available! There are now vibrators that buzz in time to the beat of the music on your iPod, vibrators made of 18ct gold, and vibrators that actually remember what you like… and then give it you next time you turn them on! Of course, we are also a lot more open about the purpose of the vibrator today. There is no need to seel them as tool for inducing hysterical paroxysm, nor as a home-massager.

The vibrator has come a long way in the last three-hundred years, and it is fascinating simply to think that   adult   toys  have been around that long. It certainly makes you appreciate what we have today!